Friday, April 30, 2010

Marriage

The thing about being married to your first love is that not being married to them is easier said than done. Chances get extended, begging is accepted and counseling is continued.

Has the ship sunk or can it be saved?


Or...

Am I just stupid to think that we can get over an Internet affair intact & stronger?

10 days and counting from the revelation that my hubby is a douche... but since then, he's been a lot more like the man I married. But of course... can it last?

5 comments:

  1. What do YOU want? I think that is really the question. If you really want it to work, and think you can get over the affair, then it might be possible that you will get through it and be stronger. You have to want it though, and so does he.

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  2. ^^^ I think that about sums it up.
    (((hugs)))

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  3. I am so sorry you are hurting. So so sorry. It takes two to make it work.. Remember that.. I am praying that is works to your hearts' desire.

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  4. :( :( That's a hard situation. Hang in there, and good luck!

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  5. Wish I had some great words of wisdom, but it all boils down to trust. Can you trust him again? Or maybe I should say, WILL you trust him again? Because if you won't, then you might as well end it now and save yourself more heartache as it's drug out even longer. If you think you CAN trust him again, then you need to do everything possible to make this work.

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